A friend is a person you can trust, who won't turn away from you;

a friend will be there when you really need someone, and will come to you when they need help...

A friend will listen to you even when they don't understand or agree with your feelings; a friend will never try to change you, but apprecates you for who you are.

A friend doesn't expert too much or give too little; a friend is someone you can share dreams, hopes, and feelings with.

A friend is a person you can think of and suddenly smile; a friend doesn't have to be told that they are special, because they know you feel that way.

A friend will accept your attitudes, ideas, and emotions, even when their own are different, and will hold your hand when you're scared.

A friend will be honest with you even when it might hurt, and will forgive you for the mistakes you make.

A friend can never disappoint you, and will support you and share in your glory.

A friend shares responsibility when you have doubts.

A friend always remembers the little things you've done, the times you've shared, and the talks you've had.

A friend will bend over backwards to help you pick up the pieces when your world falls apart.

A friend is one of life's most beautiful gifts.

I am glad you are my friend!!!

"Every morning, I wake up at 6:15 and have breakfast. Then I go to school until 5:00pm at which our householder picks us. Then it is a long evening, study and sleep… Then I wake up at 6:15… This builds the “staff” of my life.

You know, when I was five years old, I used to sit by the window and stare at the beautiful blue sky with pure white cloud. I talked to every piece of cloud quietly and made a story for each of them with my boundless imagination. I could smell the fragrance of the sun filling the air, and could not wait to grow up. Because I believed that my life should be different from anyone else in the world.

After fifteen years, I am sitting here by the window and staring at the same beautiful blue sky with pure white cloud…I just want to cry with wind. Everything remained their way in the sun, but what on earth has changed by the time? Look at myself in the mirror, what a strange face! I don’t know what I want in my life, my dream became so dim and vague…"

This is a part of letter I sent to someone before.

Well, when I read them again today, especially in a rainy day, I do feel like coming back the day I wrote them.

How does it feel if you don't know who you are completely? Is it the reason why I am still alive then try to find the answer during life jounery and get it @ the end of my life. Or I even don't have to think about it, say, just  be cool 2 be who I am till the day I die. That is the time for everyone to get a whole picture of me.

Sometime, I couldnot conceal my envy of people who are doing cacalculating jobs. Because they can just use some figures or numbers to confirm something and that shows everything without uncertain.It is so straightforward to understand.

So here I am, a girl becoming 21 soon, a new ......

我想家了~

蓝蓝的天,白白的云,绿绿的树......

还有空荡的心......

友谊,和爱情一样珍贵,遗憾的是,人们更愿意花时间去体验,讨论爱情的美妙和痛苦.

友谊,和爱情一样是两个人的关系,友谊的关系放松而亲切,因为大家是因为共同的志趣走到一起来的;爱情呢,紧张而热烈,因为人的独占欲望得到了满足,因为爱情至始至终都是两个人.爱情可以发展到家庭.同样的感觉只有这两个人才能分享和体会.友谊呢,同样的感觉同样的经历可以和无数志同道合的人交流.友谊没有象结婚证书一样可以约定,没有什么是可以真正独占的,它是自由的.也许这就是为什么有时我们不愿花时间去维持一段友谊吧,挺RISKY的.

初中认识的好友晶晶,现在也时常保持联系.可是总觉得关系有些陌生了.离开南京的前一天,我一直对那种让人发寒的陌生耿耿于怀.

多年以后,最好的朋友,朋友们的影子从我的生活里消失吗?

也许,有时我做的真的不够......